Are you willing to accept the fact that you’re responsible for where you are today? If you’re not willing to do so, then this message is for you.
And if you’re willing to, of course, you might learn from this piece too.
The sad part is that you might be doing it unconsciously until someone reminds you.
Funny enough, there are two types of blamers:
The Subtle Blamers & The Arrogant Blamers
Most people fall into the category of subtle blamers.
Now, let me explain.
The Arrogant blamers are willing to scream their heads high for any trouble they fall into. And they get to find solutions immediately because everybody around them becomes jittery and wants to solve the problems. While the name sounds like something really bad, do you know that it is better to be an arrogant blamer than a subtle one?
Alright, let’s know who the subtle blamer is.
These types of blamers are the everyday guy and lady like you.
They are subtle in their game of blames. They come to you with this look of “Ouch, I’m not just lucky”. And they go on to tell you a whole long story about how they lost out.
Hey, I’ve been here too.
The saddest part of it is that nobody cares. They will only help to listen to you.
For your information, at some point, they’ll become even tired of listening to you.
Now, let me tell you why this happens.
First, you feel entitled to enjoy good things in and around you. But it doesn’t work that way. Everything you get isn’t your entitlement. You need to work to get it.
Again, you believe so much in the system that you do not see it disappointing you. So, when it does, you feel so bad and betrayed.
Another aspect is the fact that you compare yourself to others especially your pairs when you don’t even know what they do in their secret places. I mean you don’t even understand that these guys work really hard to earn what they have.
And then, you have so much doubt in your abilities. So much that, you don’t see you achieving anything alone except with people getting involved, then you set yourself up for the blame game.
Now, what you don’t get to know is that blamers dissipate more energies than those who take productive steps towards fixing issues.
As you start the blame game, you become a slave to everything and everybody around you. Unfortunately, you wouldn’t know this fast enough until you’re fully grounded and no one is around for you to blame again.
If you continue to blame everything except you, I can guarantee you that your condition will only worsen than it should have been, because we all have problems to solve.
This is one of my favorite quotes from my coach.
“When you look for others to solve your problems, you are basically looking for who to assign blames to when you fail – and if you wait for others to solve your problem, then you will definitely find yourself with an unsolvable problem,”
With that in mind, I urge you to use all of your energy and resources to be productive and don’t spend any energy blaming, accusing, or criticizing everything except you.
In order to ensure your business, your job, your finances, and your future are secure, it’s up to YOU not someone else.
In my book – How To Start A Business Without Money.”
I talked about the fact that we all are here to survive the storm. No one is unique. Your actions are what make you unique among others.
This makes it boldly that you must stop blaming everything except YOU. Rather, start solving your problems.
Stop complaining about your Government,
Stop complaining About your parents
Stop the hate about your background
Stop complaining about politicians
Stop wasting time blaming past Governments
Stop complaining about Bank Loans and interest
You really need to stop complaining.
If you want to stop blaming, then start taking action.
Stop wasting that energy complaining.
There is only one thing you need to do.
Learn how to stop blaming and start doing.
Spend Energy Learning Skills required to get the jobs done.
Stop Wasting Your Energy Blaming Everything Around You – That Energy You Waste Is Definitely Gained In Enslaving Your Life.
You Become A Slave Living On Blames Forever.
Let me leave you with these pieces of admonition:
The moment you blame another for anything:
- You assign your power to turn things around over to that thing you’ve blamed.
- You limit your ability to find a solution.
- You waste resources and energy.
Finally, you must take note of the fact that success isn’t just important; it is vital to your life and happiness. It is your responsibility and your obligation.