Let’s Remind Ourselves That We Are Human – Your Morning Motivational Tonic With Tim Abel
Good morning ladies and gentlemen,
Recall we started this series by identifying the various signs that show your mindset is affecting your happiness.
Having drawn out the 4 Signs That Determines Whether It’s Time to Change Your Mindset Or Not.
In this series, we shall be talking about 4 important ways you can be able to top change a negative mindset.
Whether you believe it or not, human beings are naturally negative.
The problem with negativity is that it ends up limiting our accomplishments and the ability to move forward in our lives.
In order to change your mindset, you have to begin saying no to negativity.
Funny enough, most of us do not realize how negative we are in our daily lives.
I would like you to go over and watch my video on the 4 signs that show you are having a negative mindset.
So you can learn from it and become conscious.
That being said, I would like to show you the 4 ways you can apply to change your negative mindset and begin to achieve the things you really love to see in your lives.
And these 4 ways would require you as a person to become involved.
So, let’s go with it…
First Is To Always Set Reasonable Goals
Many people who focus on the negative side of life, tend to put themselves down because they set unreasonable goals that are almost impossible to achieve.
This is not to say don’t set unimaginable goals. Why not?
But make sure to always break it down to smaller goals.
So, when you set smaller, more reasonable goals, you have a better chance of being successful in achieving them, and that goes on to motivate you to reach the next one.
So, always set reasonable goals to be able to have a Positive Mindset all the time.
The Next Is For You To Turn Problems into Challenges
Don’t always dwell on problems whenever you come across it.
It is a constant that problems will always exist. But how you react when it shows up will determine how your success plays out.
It is also important to state that words are potent.
If you often find yourself negatively describing your life, try creating a list of all the negative words you use throughout the day and replace them with more positive ones.
For example, if you are always complaining about your problems, start to refer to them as challenges instead.
This may seem like simple semantics, but the words you use on a daily basis can have a real effect on your attitude.
Then The Third Is One of The Best Things I Have Learnt In Recent Days Especially When I Had Issues and This Is It
Make Sure You Always Wake Up on the Right Side of the Bed
It doesn’t matter how you went to bed the previous nights.
When you first wake up, it can be easy to begin thinking about all the stuff that you need to accomplish that day or complain about how your kids, friends or spouse kept you up all night.
To get rid of this negativity, begin your day by asking yourself the following four questions.
- What am I excited about yesterday? Just think and bring some smiles to your face.
- Then ask yourself another question. What am I excited about today? Hopefully, you woke up healthy, your family is healthy. You have a loving spouse who you can always lean your shoulders on. Your kids are growing and doing exactly your wishes for their future. Just name it.
The fact is, the moment you can configure your mindset for positives, you will have no difficulty seeing them.
- Then go on to ask yourself the third question.
Who can I encourage or serve today? This is particularly good for those with a heart to grow. Of course, you already know that greatness only comes when you are willing to serve.
So, it is easy as an employee, a career person, a businessman just name it. To know that your everyday life comes with serving people.
- The last question to ask yourself is – What am I grateful for?
Listen, there is so much to be grateful for. Your past is a clear mirror of what you should be grateful for.
Your present situation is also enough to indicate how grateful you should be.
So, look deep and find as many as you can.
Taking the time to think about all that you have and all that you are excited about will completely change your outlook for the entire day.
Lastly, Reset Your Default Answer
People who are naturally negative tend to use no or impossible as their first response to anything new.
This is done in part to allow them the time to think about it before making a decision.
Unfortunately, they end up defending their original ‘no or impossible’ decision, even when they might not have to.
To combat this natural response, try saying “I’m not sure, or something like gives me a minute.”
Then try to find a reason to say yes, rather than no or impossible.
If you find that your life is surrounded by negativity, it is essential to take the necessary steps to eliminate it from your life.
Haven presented these 4 tips to you today, I hope you can start utilizing it to help you say no to negativity and change your mindset for success.
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